10 mistakes to avoid if you are a wedding guest

We all know when we have to play a leading role and a secondary or protagonist. And if you’ve been invited to a wedding, it is clear that it is the day of the bride. We leave a list with some of the most common mistakes that you should avoid if you want to be the perfect wedding guest.

We can all have a bad day and not be entirely successful with our party look or not inspire in choosing the perfect formal dress. But to avoid such situations or reduce the maximum effects, consider these tips :

1. NO to the party dresses with glue: do not stick to a wedding! The spectacular nature and sophistication of the backs with glue, in this case, is exclusively reserved for the bride. That this is not Hollywood and we’re not walking on the red card carpet.

2. NO feathers, sequins and shine without measure: A wedding is more than just a party. This is an event with greater solemnity and therefore we do without more details “festivaleros” in our formal dress.

3. NO the mark for the nude or very washed shades: Well, it seems that all we are clear … but horror! So typical guest who is dressed in white appears. So it is worth to emphasize this again.

4. NO to total black look: While etiquette have relaxed considerably in recent years regarding black dresses at a wedding, we should avoid supplements supplements in the same key. Yes to the bright vibrant colors!

5. NO to American: You wear a cute dress, you are divine and everything is great. Do not spoil it with an American. They do not stick to anything with a costume party!

6. NO makeup War: At a wedding, you should not only consider the dress or accessories, but the hair and makeup also feature. Opt for something discreet, natural and that highlights your features.

7. Combed recharged NO: Idem with the theme of makeup. That collected processed are fine, they are very beautiful and look great in magazines. But if you’re not used, always think that the loose hair also looks great.

8. NO handbags than hand: There is nothing worse in a guest left a bag cross. At a wedding, always, always, always handbag, either clutch or small handles type. And the smaller the better!

9. NO to invited leading jewelry in tow: Some people think that a wedding is ideal for bringing out all his stuff now. Ladies and ladies, moderation!

10. In short, not the excesses: The maximum you always have to have stuck in your head when you go to a wedding guest is “less is more”. That is the crux of the matter!

Be careful be to in the black list of wedding guest

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Regardless of the occasion to speak their minds inevitably become outspoken. A “happy marriage, Love for all seasons” is enough to express your blessing, if blurt out the following 7 seemingly careless greetings, you may instantly become the most wanted guest the bride and groom want to get rid of.

“You must have spent a lot of on the wedding!”

More and more reports about the stratospheric wedding cost of superstar read in the media, people seem to get used to put a price tag on the wedding, banquet, cakes etc. But for most ordinary people, perhaps a wedding budget is not as abundant as you think, it is better to remain silent about financial problems. Do not have the stereotype of “eat more to be equivalent to the red packet”, the best choice for gifts should base on affinity with the bride and groom.

“Then you ready to have a baby, right?”

There is love there is family, everyone knows the meaning of marriage, but what happens next, only the bride and groom can make decisions. Saving money to buy a house, the pursuit of higher career goals, or complete other life plans. Everyone has their own pace of life and values, not everyone thinks the child is a necessity of marriage. The bride and groom may have been annoyed in preparation of the wedding, so please do not discuss endlessly such life events with them.

“I never thought you would settle down, remember when ……”

Even if you and your bride known for many years, and also familiar with her young past, or shake a lot of unruly legend in college, but wedding is not the good time to recall these. And talk about the private affairs of the bride and groom to other wedding guests are very inappropriate, if the other is their new colleague or elder, then you will no doubt be the blacklist of bride and groom. In such a grand wedding formal occasions, it is tired to keep reminding the past.

“Can you help me ……?”

Bride and groom undoubtedly the busiest people in the wedding, if you can not handle some of the little things, such as wrong dish the waiter sent, or the seating arrangement is wrong, there is no need to bother them. Some of the basic needs can ask wedding service company or banquet waiter for help, if you really need to discuss things with the bride and groom, you can ask the groomsmen or bridesmaids to convey.

“Why didn’t you invite XXX to attend the wedding?”

If you do not see someone you think ought to occur, there must be a reason. Perhaps he has no time to attend the party, or the bride and groom may not put him on the guest list. In any case, the most sensible way is keep silent. The wedding will not be a good occasion for such a dialogue.

“Too many people are now divorced, you know?”

Divorce is no longer the taboo topic, whether you’re on the statistical data, the bride and groom’s family life or your personal experience, not to mention this disappointed topic at the wedding. No matter what experience ups and downs, the bride and groom decide to spend a lifetime together, not the most blessed thing?

“Tonight is certainly very important, right?”

Do not get to the bottom of the bride and groom’s private time. If you want to express how grand the wedding is, talk about some topics, such as the food is good, the band is great, the host and guests thoroughly enjoy themselves and so on. It is better to congratulate the bride and groom held a successful wedding rather than concern for others’ privacy.

Tips by Aiven.co.uk! You can also read here: http://joyee2015.cafeblog.hu/2014/12/31/7-greetings-the-bride-and-groom-never-like/