Regardless of the occasion to speak their minds inevitably become outspoken. A “happy marriage, Love for all seasons” is enough to express your blessing, if blurt out the following 7 seemingly careless greetings, you may instantly become the most wanted guest the bride and groom want to get rid of.
“You must have spent a lot of on the wedding!”
More and more reports about the stratospheric wedding cost of superstar read in the media, people seem to get used to put a price tag on the wedding, banquet, cakes etc. But for most ordinary people, perhaps a wedding budget is not as abundant as you think, it is better to remain silent about financial problems. Do not have the stereotype of “eat more to be equivalent to the red packet”, the best choice for gifts should base on affinity with the bride and groom.
“Then you ready to have a baby, right?”
There is love there is family, everyone knows the meaning of marriage, but what happens next, only the bride and groom can make decisions. Saving money to buy a house, the pursuit of higher career goals, or complete other life plans. Everyone has their own pace of life and values, not everyone thinks the child is a necessity of marriage. The bride and groom may have been annoyed in preparation of the wedding, so please do not discuss endlessly such life events with them.
“I never thought you would settle down, remember when ……”
Even if you and your bride known for many years, and also familiar with her young past, or shake a lot of unruly legend in college, but wedding is not the good time to recall these. And talk about the private affairs of the bride and groom to other wedding guests are very inappropriate, if the other is their new colleague or elder, then you will no doubt be the blacklist of bride and groom. In such a grand wedding formal occasions, it is tired to keep reminding the past.
“Can you help me ……?”
Bride and groom undoubtedly the busiest people in the wedding, if you can not handle some of the little things, such as wrong dish the waiter sent, or the seating arrangement is wrong, there is no need to bother them. Some of the basic needs can ask wedding service company or banquet waiter for help, if you really need to discuss things with the bride and groom, you can ask the groomsmen or bridesmaids to convey.
“Why didn’t you invite XXX to attend the wedding?”
If you do not see someone you think ought to occur, there must be a reason. Perhaps he has no time to attend the party, or the bride and groom may not put him on the guest list. In any case, the most sensible way is keep silent. The wedding will not be a good occasion for such a dialogue.
“Too many people are now divorced, you know?”
Divorce is no longer the taboo topic, whether you’re on the statistical data, the bride and groom’s family life or your personal experience, not to mention this disappointed topic at the wedding. No matter what experience ups and downs, the bride and groom decide to spend a lifetime together, not the most blessed thing?
“Tonight is certainly very important, right?”
Do not get to the bottom of the bride and groom’s private time. If you want to express how grand the wedding is, talk about some topics, such as the food is good, the band is great, the host and guests thoroughly enjoy themselves and so on. It is better to congratulate the bride and groom held a successful wedding rather than concern for others’ privacy.
Tips by Aiven.co.uk! You can also read here: http://joyee2015.cafeblog.hu/2014/12/31/7-greetings-the-bride-and-groom-never-like/
